Just Married

Some of you may know that I recently got married. Here are some tips to keep you on track when planning a wedding;

Get a wedding planner - Even if it is not in your budget to hire a wedding planner for the entire event, hire one for the week of your wedding or at the very least the day of.

The benefits of a wedding planner;

A Neutral Voice - Trust me this is important. Everyone will be giving you advice. Some good and some questionable. Sometimes it will feel like they are telling you what to do. A wedding planner will know your vision and keep you on track. You won't hurt anyone's feelings if you say "thanks

I'll run that by my wedding planner."

Details - A wedding planner will relieve you handling all the details. It's sometimes hard to let go of control, but the more you do the more you will actually enjoy "your day".

The Bad Guy - Everyone of your guests are important, but the day of your wedding you only want certain people to see you before the main event ie, your mom, your attendants...Your wedding planner will be the bad guy and make sure you get ready at your own time with only the closest people at hand.

Budget Keeper - It is important to have a clear budget. This is the hardest to keep track of. Make sure your budget is communicated to your planner. Use the vendors they suggest, this will give them the power to negotiate the best deal and will give you the most bang for your buck.

Time Is On Your Side - On the day of the event, the planner will keep track of time for you. You wont ever have look at your watch and will be on time for your first dance, cutting the cake,

toasts...This will also allow you to enjoy your guests.

Some other quick tips;

Be true to your and your future husbands tastes.

Don't get pressured by sales people.

Hire a florist. Some people think they will save money by doing their own flowers. Unless you are a professional florist, this usually ends up looking unprofessional and doesn't save a lot of money considering the amount of time it will take.

Less is definitely more. When inviting guests, keep in mind that you will need to greet each and everyone of them. This will take lots of time. I heard many brides say they don't remember their reception saying its a blur. Keep guests to a minimum so you create a more intimate event allowing you to not only greet them but also have fun and enjoy their company.

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